Did I miss out? Really?
I haven’t paid much attention, honestly. If she’s doing well, I’m happy for her. If she isn’t, then I wish her a better future and much luck with her goals. Towards the end of our relationship, neither of us were in healthy places mentally and it was best that we parted ways. Truly.
I’m not sure what you’re implying by your ask, Anon, but when she left me (something I’m not afraid to admit because looking back, I wasn’t the best person to her and I acknowledge that) it was ultimately a healthier decision for us both. So, in that respect, I don’t feel either of us missed out on much. I got better, and I hope she did too.
What have I missed out on, Anon? Enlighten me. Has she become the author she wanted to be and is swimming in a pool full of money? Has she resolved the challenges in her life (of which there were many)? Did she achieve her weight loss goals and is now a famous model or something? Did she graduate? Get married? Make a life she’s happy with?
I hope she has.
I made a lot of changes in my life since then, and the only thing I think I would be missing out on at this point is another friend.